The divorce prep you need and wish you had
Every resource for every stage, built by someone who's lived it and survived
Whatever you’re facing right now inside the family court system, I’ve faced it more than once.
I know what it feels like to sit where you’re sitting right now. You are scared, lost, confused, frustrated, and maybe even lonely from the distance you've created between those you love to protect yourself. The exhaustion of not knowing what you don’t know creeps in every night and every morning because you aren't really sure what is going on.
When I say, "I get it," I really mean that.
I found my way to this work the same way you found your way to this page — through the frustration of being lost and confused inside the family court system.
Hi, I am Alvie McNair. I’m not an attorney. I’m something more useful to you right now. I am someone who has lived every stage of what you’re facing, who built in-depth divorce navigation resources from everything I had to learn the hard way.
I spent twelve years and $130,000 figuring out what I’m handing you right now. Not because it’s a good idea. Because I needed it and it didn’t exist.
Divody® Academy gives you everything I've learned and every mistake I've made, so you don’t have to figure out the system the hard way, as I did.
It’s the preparation that could have saved me thousands of dollars and a lot of frustration, had I had what I offer you today.
From 1:1 coaching sessions to full courses for every milestone in the family court, there is a resource for wherever you are in your divorce process.
The complete Prepared. Period.™ 12 video series, two 60-minute sessions with Alvie McNair, Divody journal, and Monthly Live access. Every resource and direct access to someone who has been exactly where you are. The ultimate family court course.
$597
All 3 tracks. 12 videos. Every tool you need for every stage of your case. Built from 12 years inside the family court system. What you don't know in the beginning will cost you in the end. This bundle makes sure you know everything.
$297
Most parents enter the family court system the same way: lost, overwhelmed, and underprepared for what they’re actually walking into. Because no one told them what to expect. Track 1: Before You Walk In is built for the moment before it all begins.
$97
You’re in the thick of family court. The hearings are starting. The pressure is building. And the gap between what you know and what you need to know feels wider every day. Track 2 is the track most people wish they’d had from day one. Get it today!
$97
The order is signed. Done. But no one told you that the end of the case isn’t the end of the battle. Track 3: When It’s Over is built for life after the ruling. Because surviving the process is one thing. Actually getting your life back is another.
$97
You can represent yourself in family court. But there is a lot most people get wrong. This video was built from lived experience and covers what Pro Se means, what to expect, and how to show up prepared when it's just you standing before a judge.
$47
Many clients come to me focused on the crisis in front of them and unsure where to begin, uncertain who to trust, and aware that the next decision matters more than they fully understand.
You don’t need to have everything figured out. You just need a place to begin.
My services are best for individuals who are:
Looking to understand the how, not just the what, to winning their divorce case
Overwhelmed by conflicting advice and opinions from friends, family, or the internet
Lost in the process and need a deeper understanding of what is happening and what comes next
Feeling pressure to act quickly without feeling fully aware or prepared for what is being asked
Confused on what is happening and you’ve started questioning whether you’re making the right decisions
Doing your best to keep up, but constantly feeling a step behind